Do You Really Think Sex Coaches Have Sex Every Day?

I get this question all the time:
“Olawunmi, as a sex coach, do you have sex every day?”

The answer might surprise you.
No, I don’t. But what I do every day is nurture pleasure in my body.

In episode 7 of Love Notes with O.E., I talk about the difference between sex and pleasure, and how learning to experience pleasure daily keeps your body warm, alive, and deeply connected, even outside the bedroom.

Pleasure isn’t always erotic. It’s in the warmth of a hug, the softness of your lover’s touch, the laughter with your kids, or the feeling of cool air brushing your skin. When we expand our definition of pleasure, intimacy flows more easily, and sex becomes something deeper, an extension of connection, not a performance.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why sex isn’t the only form of pleasure, and how to awaken others.
Simple ways to expand your idea of pleasure as an individual and as a couple.
How aligning with your partner on what pleasure looks like can completely transform your intimacy..

🎧 Listen to Episode 7, “Making Pleasure a Lifestyle”, now on Spotify

Olawunmiesan is one of Africa’s renowned sex therapists who helps individuals and couples improve intimacy and enjoy sexual pleasure, connection, and fulfillment. To learn more about her works, visit: www.olawunmiesan.com