Many men come to me with the same silent struggle:
“How do I last longer?”
“How do I make my penis bigger?”
“What if I can’t stay hard?”
The pressure to perform in the bedroom is eating many men alive. Sex has become about proving themselves instead of enjoying intimacy.
But here’s the truth: women don’t just want a man who can “go forever.”
We want an attentive lover, one who feels with us, not just does to us.
In episode 6 of my podcast- Love Notes with O.E., I talk about:
- Why performance anxiety kills pleasure
- How societal myths (size, stamina, bowlegs!) are messing with men’s confidence
- What women actually desire in the bedroom
Men, it’s time to stop performing and start connecting.
🎧 Listen to Episode 6 here on Spotify:

