Men, Stop Performing

Many men come to me with the same silent struggle:

“How do I last longer?”

“How do I make my penis bigger?”

“What if I can’t stay hard?”

The pressure to perform in the bedroom is eating many men alive. Sex has become about proving themselves instead of enjoying intimacy.

But here’s the truth: women don’t just want a man who can “go forever.”

We want an attentive lover, one who feels with us, not just does to us.

In episode 6 of my podcast- Love Notes with O.E., I talk about:
  • Why performance anxiety kills pleasure
  • How societal myths (size, stamina, bowlegs!) are messing with men’s confidence
  • What women actually desire in the bedroom

Men, it’s time to stop performing and start connecting.

🎧 Listen to Episode 6 here on Spotify: 

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Olawunmi Esan is Nigeria’s leading Sex Therapist and Coach. She is a trained Psychologist and certified Sex Therapist, who helps Couples and Individuals enjoy Mind-Blowing Sex.

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