Some people won’t like me for this topic. But read through before you crucify me and thank me later. Is there really a right way to say “No” to sex? Especially when the bottom line is still that no one gets to have sex? I assure you, there is. In communication, we are told that […]
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Before I proceed, I would like to say, these views are mine and as such are not binding on anyone else. What better time to tackle this controversial topic than when many churches are observing their annual fast? The topic of whether or not to have sex during fasting periods is one that rears its
A while back, I got a pair of trainers to work out but I didn’t wear them for some time. Recently I started working out again and I wore the trainers. They were a perfect fit when I got them but I noticed now that when I wear them for a length of time, my
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“Dear Olawunmi, My wife and I have been married for 6 years. In this time, our marriage has been beautifully blessed in almost every aspect. I say almost because I would be lying if I said our sex life has been beautiful. I am more open to trying new things in bed but my wife
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Today, I tried doing the laundry but for some reason, the washing machine refused to work. Its display screen showed a command that meant water was unable to flow into the machine via the pipes. I tried everything I knew to, but nothing worked and so I called the plumber. The plumber checked the pipes
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A few days ago, in the process of cleaning out my ears with a cotton bud, I went in too deep and touched something that wasn’t meant to be touched. At first it felt uncomfortable but later, it became full blown pain. For 2 days, I tried suppressing the pain with Paracetamol because I didn’t
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Shared values, shared beliefs…… speaking one language. Recently I was struck by the story of Babel and how God caused confusion between the people by changing their language. From the story, you could see that God knew that humans could achieve great things if they worked together. In order to thwart the vision the people
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Massages are a great way to connect intimately with your spouse without necessarily having intercourse. Hands connecting with every part of the body creates an unparalleled awareness of the body’s response to touch. You see, when you give your spouse a massage, you are fully immersed in the process and are able to observe their
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When a lot of us hear the word ‘intimacy’, we automatically conclude that it refers to sex and sex related acts. Well, that may not entirely be wrong, however intimacy is much more than sex. Intimacy when broken down simply means ‘Into -Me -See’. It means being able to see into and understand your spouse
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While reading my bible today, I was fixated on the passage where Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me’ in Matthew19:14. Undoubtedly, we have heard this bible passage countless times but today, it had a new meaning for me. It dawned on me that Jesus was not referring to just that moment when
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