December is here, and with it comes the festive season of fun, indulgence, and unforgettable moments. While you’re planning parties and getaways, why not spice things up in the bedroom (and beyond)?
This is the perfect time to reconnect with your partner, reignite your passion, and tick off a steamy sex bucket list that will make this Detty December your most memorable yet.
Here are some playful and daring ideas to try out:
1. Dive into Roleplay
Unleash your creativity and step into another persona for the night. Roleplay isn’t just fun—it’s a chance to explore fantasies and add excitement to your intimate life.
Classic Scenarios: The sexy nurse and patient, police officer and thief, or strangers meeting at a bar.
Make It Your Own: Invent a backstory together and let the night unfold.
The key is to stay playful and lean into the roles. You’ll be surprised how this can bring laughter, passion, and a new layer of intimacy.
Here’s a guide on role-playing: How to creatively engage in roleplaying
2. Sex Anywhere Except Your Bed
Step outside your comfort zone—literally. The thrill of trying something new can instantly reignite passion.
Think about cozying up by the Christmas tree, getting playful on the kitchen counter while baking cookies, or sneaking a quick rendezvous in the living room.
– If you’re feeling adventurous, explore more unconventional spots, like the car (parked, of course!) or even your balcony under the stars.
Wherever you choose, ensure you’re safe and comfortable, but let the new setting work its magic on your connection.
3. Sensual Foot Massages
Let’s not forget how erotic non-sexual touch can be. A sensual foot massage is intimate, relaxing, and the perfect way to transition into something more passionate.
– Use warm oil or scented lotion to enhance the experience.
– Take your time, paying attention to every detail, from gentle kneading to slow, intentional strokes.
– Make it about giving pleasure without rushing—it will naturally lead to more.
Sometimes, the slow build-up makes the eventual climax even better.
4. Take Turns Reading Sexcapades to Each Other
Reading together isn’t just for bedtime stories. Pick up a copy of Sexcapades book and explore.
Take turns reading the prelude story of any chapter of your choice aloud, replace the name of the protagonist with yours.
Pause to discuss your thoughts, what intrigues you, or what you’d love to try together.
Explore the erotic adventures
This simple activity can make things intense and give you endless ideas for your Detty December fun.
5. Create a Christmas Playlist for the Bedroom
Set the mood with a curated playlist that blends festive vibes with sensual beats.
– Include songs that remind you of each other, smooth jazz renditions of Christmas classics, or sexy R&B tracks.
– Keep the volume low and let the music set the pace for the night.
– Dance to the playlist together—it’s a beautiful way to connect physically and emotionally.
Music has a way of enhancing every moment, so don’t underestimate the power of a well-thought-out soundtrack.
Make This December Unforgettable
Detty December is all about going all in, and that applies to your love life too. This bucket list isn’t just about trying new things; it’s about prioritizing your connection, embracing spontaneity, and making memories that will keep you smiling into the New Year.
Start small, or dive right in—whatever works for you and your partner. And if you need a little extra guidance or inspiration, Sexcapades is your ultimate holiday companion. Get Sexcapades HERE
So, what’s going on your sex bucket list this December? Share with us, and let’s make this season steamy, fun, and utterly unforgettable!