Fingering is an underrated art and when done right, it has the potential to bring your woman to mind blowing ecstasy.
Like all women know, dry, fast, and furious fingering does not feel pleasant but wet, built-up, and skillful use of hands on pussy feels ah-mazing!
Follow these tips to get her screaming in ecstasy
Turn her on.
Fingering can be uncomfortable if the receiving partner is not properly aroused since vaginal lubrication is key to comfortable penetration. Give her vagina sufficient time to be fully aroused. Kiss, caress your partner’s breasts, touch their inner thighs, or do whatever works to create a state of arousal in your woman
Don’t be scared of lube.
Vaginas can be finicky. Sometimes, even with no medical explanations, they just don’t get as wet as you (or your partner) would like. Thankfully, you don’t always need to rely on natural lubricant, because there are plenty you can buy.
Stimulate her clitoris
Prior to penetration, take two fingers (your index and middle) and flatten them like a DJ would on a turntable. Then, gently use your fingers to rub your wife’s clitoris in circular motions, increasing speed and intensity gradually. Asides the circular motion, you could explore other motions for clit stimulation.
Start with one finger.
Start out with a finger. Slowly slip a finger into her pussy. Use whatever finger you feel most comfortable with, but the best bet is the index finger or the middle finger. As she gets wetter and more turned on, she may want you to add more fingers.
Communicate.
While moans are usually a sign your partner is enjoying it, there’s only one sure-fire way to know: Ask her! Get specific. Is one finger enough? Does she want more? Is the clitoral stimulation becoming too intense, or are they close to orgasm? Communication is key to successful sex, so make sure to check in with your woman.
Explore other areas of their body.
Once your fingers are inside her pussy, you don’t need to finger her or rub her clit the whole time. The vaginal walls and clitoris are sensitive, and she may want a break in between. So explore other things, like sucking her breasts, kissing her, teasing, etc, while your finger stays inside her.
Practice these tips with your woman and increase her pleasure drastically.