How to Make Pleasure a Lifestyle
I get this question all the time:
“Olawunmi, as a sex coach, do you have sex every day?”, The answer might surprise you.
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Olawunmi Esan is Nigeria’s leading Sex Therapist and Coach. She is a trained Psychologist and certified Sex Therapist, who helps Couples and Individuals enjoy Mind-Blowing Sex.
Men, Stop Performing
Many men come to me with the same silent struggle: “How do I last longer?” “How do I make my penis bigger?” “What if I can’t stay hard?” The pressure to perform in the bedroom is eating many men alive.…
Stop Waiting to Be Turned On: Understanding Desire
Are you one of those people who wait to “feel turned on” before having sex? You keep expecting that sudden spark, that tingling in your body, before intimacy can happen. But what if I told you that waiting for that…
Why Many Women Struggle With Bedroom Confidence
When people think of a woman who is “confident in the bedroom,” they often picture someone who knows all the moves: how to ride, how to seduce, how to please her man. But from my years of work with women, I’ve discovered that the real reason many women lack confidence is much deeper.
Why Some Men Struggle With Erections at Home But Perform Outside
This issue is more common than many people realize, and it can cause deep pain in marriages. Some men begin to wonder if they’re no longer attracted to their wives. Others start to avoid sex altogether because they feel anxious about their performance.
But here’s the truth: in many cases, it’s not about attraction at all. The real culprit is often performance anxiety.
How to Be Amazing in Bed – Beyond Just Techniques
One of the most common questions I get asked is:“How can I be amazing in bed?” So many people think the answer lies in a list of techniques – teach me how to do a blowjob, how to ride, how…
Faith, Spirituality, and Sex: Can They Coexist?
For many people of faith, especially within the Christian community, sex and pleasure feel like a tension point. I’ve heard questions like: So often, we separate faith on one side and pleasure on the other, believing they can’t exist together.…
3 Ways to Rekindle Your desire for Sex
The first step to rekindling your desire for sex is understanding why you lack the desire or interest in the first place. If you’ve been feeling disconnected from sex, there’s always a reason behind it. In this blog post, I’ll…
How to Move from Sexual Trauma to Pleasure
I’ve worked with so many women who have experienced sexual trauma, and one of the most common fears they have is this: Will I ever enjoy sex? The answer is yes, but healing takes time, patience, and the right support. …
How to Make him weak in the knees- Every Single time
You lean in close, your lips just a breath away from his ear. “Miss me?” you whisper, your fingers lightly tracing the back of his neck. His breath hitches. His hands tighten around your waist, but you pull away, just…