A happy marriage doesn’t always mean a satisfying sex life. This question is a perfect example: “Saying this feels embarrassing, but sex with my husband is boring. He is a wonderful husband and father, but when it comes to sex,…
A member of the community sent this question. Hi Coach, I don’t seem to get wet enough during sex, even when I want to be intimate with my husband. And this makes penetration uncomfortable. I’m worried about this. What can…
Many men misunderstand why their wives lose interest in sex. Let me share what a client shared with me. This client had been struggling with disinterest in sex with her husband, and she couldn’t put a finger on why. However,…
A member of my private community for women asked this question: “My husband says sex should be spontaneous, not planned. Planning works better for me, but he says planning is boring. What can I do?” RESPONSE Ah, the age-old debate:…
Stress is a libido killer for most women. When most women are stressed, sex is the farthest thing from their minds. And it makes sense. Because when you are stressed, your body is giving you feedback. It’s saying: We need…
Many couples struggle with desire discrepancy in marriage – where one partner has a higher libido than the other. In many cases, the husband tends to be the higher-libido partner. In this YouTube video, I talk about what many higher-libido…
Many people assume that if a wife avoids or does not like sex, it automatically means she no longer loves or desires her husband. But is that really true? In this YouTube video, I break down one of the most…
Many women struggle with asking for what they want in bed, and it’s not because they are selfish or demanding. Often, it’s because of how we were taught about sex growing up. You may have learned that a good wife…
A short story… She lay there, staring at the ceiling. Her husband was close. His hands were on her body. Everything looked right from the outside. But inside, she was far away. Her mind was running through unfinished tasks, tomorrow’s…
If sex in your marriage feels like something you endure, manage, or tick off, you’re not alone. Many women don’t say it out loud, but inside they’re thinking: When sex feels like a chore, it’s not because you’re cold, lazy,…
