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I was speaking at a couples’ retreat and a couple asked me this question, ‘Do you think couples should learn about sex from porn?’ I get this question often and the argument usually is, where else can couples learn about…

Can a woman who has never orgasmed through penetration learn how to? I love this question because there are so many beliefs around whether women can orgasm from penetration. Research tells us that most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation. I…

I have never had an orgasm. I don’t even know what it feels like. How can I orgasm? If you have ever asked yourself this question, you are not alone. You have heard women talk about how amazing an orgasm…

A couple of years ago, we did a survey asking men what makes a woman great in bed. And the number one answer might surprise you. Enthusiasm. Yes, enthusiasm. The way a woman who wants to be in the sexual…

If you’ve ever found yourself avoiding your husband’s touch because you know his touch always leads to sex, or you’ve wondered why your wife no longer seems interested in physical affection, you may be surprised by what’s really happening. For…

Many women who were circumcised have spent years believing that pleasure just isn’t possible for them. They’ve been told they’ll never enjoy sex. They’ll never orgasm. They’ll simply have to live with it. But is that really true? Over the…

A happy marriage doesn’t always mean a satisfying sex life. This question is a perfect example:  “Saying this feels embarrassing, but sex with my husband is boring. He is a wonderful husband and father, but when it comes to sex,…

A member of the community sent this question. Hi Coach, I don’t seem to get wet enough during sex, even when I want to be intimate with my husband. And this makes penetration uncomfortable. I’m worried about this. What can…