Sex While Fasting
Before I proceed, I would like to say, these views are mine and as such are not binding on anyone else. What better time to tackle this controversial topic than when many churches are observing their annual fast? The topic…
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Olawunmi Esan is Nigeria’s leading Sex Therapist and Coach. She is a trained Psychologist and certified Sex Therapist, who helps Couples and Individuals enjoy Mind-Blowing Sex.
Why Do We Fight So Much?
A while back, I got a pair of trainers to work out but I didn’t wear them for some time. Recently I started working out again and I wore the trainers. They were a perfect fit when I got them…
Handling Sexual Differences In Marriage
“Dear Olawunmi, My wife and I have been married for 6 years. In this time, our marriage has been beautifully blessed in almost every aspect. I say almost because I would be lying if I said our sex life has…
Why Your Marriage Needs A Filter
Today, I tried doing the laundry but for some reason, the washing machine refused to work. Its display screen showed a command that meant water was unable to flow into the machine via the pipes. I tried everything I knew…
Handling Conflict In Marriage
A few days ago, in the process of cleaning out my ears with a cotton bud, I went in too deep and touched something that wasn’t meant to be touched. At first it felt uncomfortable but later, it became full…
Shared Values & Speaking One Language
Shared values, shared beliefs…… speaking one language. Recently I was struck by the story of Babel and how God caused confusion between the people by changing their language. From the story, you could see that God knew that humans could…
How To Give A Sensual Massage
Massages are a great way to connect intimately with your spouse without necessarily having intercourse. Hands connecting with every part of the body creates an unparalleled awareness of the body’s response to touch. You see, when you give your spouse…
Understanding True Intimacy
When a lot of us hear the word ‘intimacy’, we automatically conclude that it refers to sex and sex related acts. Well, that may not entirely be wrong, however intimacy is much more than sex. Intimacy when broken down simply…
What Do You Model To Your Kids?
While reading my bible today, I was fixated on the passage where Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me’ in Matthew19:14. Undoubtedly, we have heard this bible passage countless times but today, it had a new meaning for…
The Power Of Erotic Talk
One of the most underrated ways of provoking sexual arousal in your spouse is by using your words erotically. Not only is it underrated, many people find it awkward to speak erotic words … plain and simple. How do I…