Before taking the plunge into marriage, it is very crucial that you evaluate your relationship to be sure your intended is someone you can actually spend your entire life with. Quite a number of people spend so much time preparing…
‘I am getting married in 4 months. My fiance and I are yet to have sex as we are Christians. However, I fear that not having sex before marriage may lead to issues of sexual incompatibility in marriage. Is it…
This is where many people go wrong. Unfortunately, getting things wrong here may very well mean sentencing yourself to a life of unhappiness. The fairy-tale we all want is to meet Mr/Mrs Right and live happily ever after. Afterall, that…
In my last post, I spoke about taking sex out of the bedroom. Today, we take it out of the house. The essence of going outside the house to have sex is to reintroduce excitement into your sex life. You…
TAKING SEX OUT OF THE BEDROOM In marriage, you tend to have most of your activities planned, scheduled or carried out in a conventional way. Usually, sex falls into the category of the activities you tend to carry out conventionally.…
All married couples at one point or the other in marriage will have issues to deal with. In my experience as a Marriage and Sex counselor, I have come to discover that the one thing that makes the difference between…
A threesome? Surely this is a sin and no one, let alone a Christian should be advocating threesomes. Hold up, before your judge, sentence and crucify me, the threesome I speak of is that which involves You, Your Spouse and…
I like to call this an open secret. It’s an open secret that many of us are blinded to and unfortunately, never get to consider. I also was blinded to it for quite a while, until one day I was…
In my last post on oral sex, I had you practice lip confidence and get used to some of the basic oral sex techniques. This time, let’s get to the real thing. First things first – prep yourself. Feel sexy.…
How important is sex in a Christian marriage? Without much thought, I am sure your answer would be ‘very important’. Right? Unfortunately the current reality is quite different from the ideal. Too many times I have heard Christian men complain…
