Massages are a great way to connect intimately with your spouse without necessarily having intercourse. Hands connecting with every part of the body creates an unparalleled awareness of the body’s response to touch. You see, when you give your spouse…
When a lot of us hear the word ‘intimacy’, we automatically conclude that it refers to sex and sex related acts. Well, that may not entirely be wrong, however intimacy is much more than sex. Intimacy when broken down simply…
While reading my bible today, I was fixated on the passage where Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me’ in Matthew19:14. Undoubtedly, we have heard this bible passage countless times but today, it had a new meaning for…
One of the most underrated ways of provoking sexual arousal in your spouse is by using your words erotically. Not only is it underrated, many people find it awkward to speak erotic words … plain and simple. How do I…
I like to believe that I am a realist and it would be pretty unrealistic of me to deny the fact that sex between single people is quite hip these days. Gone are the days when an unmarried lady or…
When I talk to singles planning to get married, one of the first things I ask is ‘What type of marriage do you envision for yourself?’ Based on their response, we then drill down to ‘What type of spouse do…
How often should you have sex to qualify as a happily married couple? Twice a week, thrice a week, everyday? It’s a question quite a number of people think about: ‘What frequency of sex makes me eligible to join the…
I was speaking with a friend the other day and naturally sex came up, Yes, I enjoy talking about sex. In the course of our conversation, we began reeling off a list of our sexual escapades and wondering at the…
Time and again, the question has been asked? What does it take to be a great lover? Trust me, this question is not gender specific at all. Men have asked me, Women have asked me and in different ways too.…
Olawunmi, my husband likes sex….alot. I don’t hate it but I have a problem with the way he approaches sex. I am the kind of person who enjoys sex in totality, I enjoy when I am wooed even before I…
