Sex and The Single Fellow
I like to believe that I am a realist and it would be pretty unrealistic of me to deny the fact that sex between single people is quite hip these days. Gone are the days when an unmarried lady or…
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Olawunmi Esan is Nigeria’s leading Sex Therapist and Coach. She is a trained Psychologist and certified Sex Therapist, who helps Couples and Individuals enjoy Mind-Blowing Sex.
Are You The Enemy Of Your Marriage?
When I talk to singles planning to get married, one of the first things I ask is ‘What type of marriage do you envision for yourself?’ Based on their response, we then drill down to ‘What type of spouse do…
Doing This Can Improve Your Sex Life Drastically
How often should you have sex to qualify as a happily married couple? Twice a week, thrice a week, everyday? It’s a question quite a number of people think about: ‘What frequency of sex makes me eligible to join the…
Have You Tried The Sex Bucket List?
I was speaking with a friend the other day and naturally sex came up, Yes, I enjoy talking about sex. In the course of our conversation, we began reeling off a list of our sexual escapades and wondering at the…
This Is What Makes You A Fantastic Lover
Time and again, the question has been asked? What does it take to be a great lover? Trust me, this question is not gender specific at all. Men have asked me, Women have asked me and in different ways too.…
Love Making Vs Fast Food Sex
Olawunmi, my husband likes sex….alot. I don’t hate it but I have a problem with the way he approaches sex. I am the kind of person who enjoys sex in totality, I enjoy when I am wooed even before I…
Marriage and Gender Stereotyping
Many couples today are in marriages that are tethering on the brink of divorce as a result of strict gender stereotyping. The African society from time immemorial has provided a laid down manual for man and wife to follow. It…
Read This Before You Set Those Relationship Goals
Girl: I see us having 2 kids, a house with a white picket fence, a Labrador and 2 luxury vehicles. My parents would visit during Easter, your parents would visit for Christmas but we should have both parents come around…
Why You Should Have A Friend With Benefits
The term “friends with benefits” calls to mind two adults having consensual sex with no expectations or romantic strings attached. Today, I am redefining it. Indulge me. Let’s start by dissecting the individual words. A friend is someone with whom…
Do You Really Know What You Want In A Life Partner?
So you are single and ready to mingle. You have ticked all or maybe most of the boxes you wanted to tick before getting married. You have your college degree, a nice job, a fancy car, a nice apartment and…