I like to believe that I am a realist and it would be pretty unrealistic of me to deny the fact that sex between single people is quite hip these days. Gone are the days when an unmarried lady or man would have sex in secret to avoid being labelled. These days, it is the […]
When I talk to singles planning to get married, one of the first things I ask is ‘What type of marriage do you envision for yourself?’ Based on their response, we then drill down to ‘What type of spouse do you need to make the vision a reality?’. We go further and the question becomes
How often should you have sex to qualify as a happily married couple? Twice a week, thrice a week, everyday? It’s a question quite a number of people think about: ‘What frequency of sex makes me eligible to join the ‘Happily Marrieds’ club?’ My answer. There is no “set in stone” required frequency that makes
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I was speaking with a friend the other day and naturally sex came up, Yes, I enjoy talking about sex. In the course of our conversation, we began reeling off a list of our sexual escapades and wondering at the extent of the outlandish things we had done. It was fun. As the conversation progressed,
Time and again, the question has been asked? What does it take to be a great lover? Trust me, this question is not gender specific at all. Men have asked me, Women have asked me and in different ways too. ‘Olawunmi, how can I rock her world?’ ‘Olawunmi, what does it mean for a woman
Olawunmi, my husband likes sex….alot. I don’t hate it but I have a problem with the way he approaches sex. I am the kind of person who enjoys sex in totality, I enjoy when I am wooed even before I get to the bedroom, it helps me condition my mind properly for the actual sex.
Many couples today are in marriages that are tethering on the brink of divorce as a result of strict gender stereotyping. The African society from time immemorial has provided a laid down manual for man and wife to follow. It has been made clear to us over and again, even more so while growing up.
Girl: I see us having 2 kids, a house with a white picket fence, a Labrador and 2 luxury vehicles. My parents would visit during Easter, your parents would visit for Christmas but we should have both parents come around for Thanksgiving. I also think we should run a joint account for long term savings,
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The term “friends with benefits” calls to mind two adults having consensual sex with no expectations or romantic strings attached. Today, I am redefining it. Indulge me. Let’s start by dissecting the individual words. A friend is someone with whom you can share your innermost thoughts with, someone with whom you feel free to be
So you are single and ready to mingle. You have ticked all or maybe most of the boxes you wanted to tick before getting married. You have your college degree, a nice job, a fancy car, a nice apartment and all what not. The only major thing unchecked on your list right now is marriage.
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