Being on top can be one of the most empowering and enjoyable positions during sex, offering both control and intimacy.
But what happens when discomfort starts to interfere with the pleasure? Whether it’s knee pain, awkward angles, or just not feeling as good as it could, these issues can take the fun out of an otherwise thrilling experience.
If you’ve ever found yourself struggling to find comfort or maximize pleasure while on top, you’re not alone. The good news? With a few simple adjustments, you can enhance your experience and fully enjoy this position. And if you’re ready to take things to the next level, our “Ride Like a Pro” course is here to help you master the art of being on top.
Pad Your Knees
Being on top can be tough on the knees, especially for the receiver. If you find your knees starting to hurt, try padding them with pillows. You can also experiment with squatting over your partner instead of kneeling, which may reduce the strain.
Alternatively, moving to a narrow chair allows you to stand on the floor while still being on top. Or, consider a big comfy chair where you can sit on your partner’s lap, taking the pressure off your knees.
Play Around with the Angle of Your Hips
Angle is everything when you’re on top! The angle of your pelvis dictates how deep the penis or dildo goes and what internal hotspots it stimulates during penetration.
If your pelvis is tilted towards your partner’s face, they’re more likely to penetrate deeply, stimulating your cervix and A-spot. On the other hand, if your pelvis is tilted away from the face, you’re more likely to stimulate your G-spot.
Clitoral Stimulation
If you want to enjoy clitoral stimulation while you ride, rock your hips back and forth as you grind against your partner. Grinding in that way, allows your clitoris to rub against your partner’s pelvis.
Intensify Sensations While Riding
For an even more intense experience, try rhythmically contracting and releasing your pussy muscles while he is inside you. He will be singing like a canary by the time you are done and so you will!
If It Feels Too Deep
If the penetration feels too deep, try rising and keeping the thrusts shallow. As you do this, communicate with your partner about your comfort level. For example, you could say, “When I drop down, it feels too deep. So, can you just lay there while I move to the depth that feels good for me?”
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