A short story… She lay there, staring at the ceiling. Her husband was close. His hands were on her body. Everything looked right from the outside. But inside, she was far away. Her mind was running through unfinished tasks, tomorrow’s…
If sex in your marriage feels like something you endure, manage, or tick off, you’re not alone. Many women don’t say it out loud, but inside they’re thinking: When sex feels like a chore, it’s not because you’re cold, lazy,…
December is usually one of the most beautiful times of the year. As anticipated and wonderful as it can be, it can also be overwhelming.
Family visits. Noise. Full houses. No privacy. And intimacy, for some couples, slowly moves to the backseat. Here's how to create intimacy this season!
I get this question all the time:
“Olawunmi, as a sex coach, do you have sex every day?”, The answer might surprise you.
Many men come to me with the same silent struggle: “How do I last longer?” “How do I make my penis bigger?” “What if I can’t stay hard?” The pressure to perform in the bedroom is eating many men alive.…
Are you one of those people who wait to “feel turned on” before having sex? You keep expecting that sudden spark, that tingling in your body, before intimacy can happen. But what if I told you that waiting for that…
This issue is more common than many people realize, and it can cause deep pain in marriages. Some men begin to wonder if they’re no longer attracted to their wives. Others start to avoid sex altogether because they feel anxious about their performance.
But here’s the truth: in many cases, it’s not about attraction at all. The real culprit is often performance anxiety.
One of the most common questions I get asked is:“How can I be amazing in bed?” So many people think the answer lies in a list of techniques – teach me how to do a blowjob, how to ride, how…
For many people of faith, especially within the Christian community, sex and pleasure feel like a tension point. I’ve heard questions like: So often, we separate faith on one side and pleasure on the other, believing they can’t exist together.…
The first step to rekindling your desire for sex is understanding why you lack the desire or interest in the first place. If you’ve been feeling disconnected from sex, there’s always a reason behind it. In this blog post, I’ll…
