When it comes to Sex, Men and Women experience pleasure differently, however understanding those differences can help you enjoy amazing sexual experiences together.
Unfulfilling sexual experiences affect both partners and can ultimately be a turn off for both parties. To create fulfilling sexual experiences, it’s important to factor in how you and your partner receive pleasure, both in and outside the bedroom.
In this article. I share tips on how to become a better lover, both inside and outside the bedroom.
1. Build Emotional and Intimate connection outside the bedroom
There is a popular saying that Sex does not start in the bedroom. Most people assume this applies to women alone but that’s not true. For both parties, true sexual intimacy starts outside the bedroom.
Building intimate connection outside the bedroom includes understanding each other’s love language and speaking it.
Creating time to bond, creating an atmosphere that encourages effective and graceful communication, and freedom of self-expression.
Doing this helps create a bond to enhance sexual intimacy in the bedroom
2. Make Sex about Mutual pleasure
As human beings, we either move towards pleasure or away from pain. If sex is not pleasurable for you, it makes sense that you would not want more of it.
When a partner is focused solely on their pleasure and shows no concern for their partner’s pleasure, it becomes a one-sided experience as opposed to being a mutually pleasurable experience.
If you have been neglecting your partner’s pleasure, now is a good time to start looking out for them. Ask them what they like, pay attention to their sexual responses, explore each other’s bodies and find ways to make sex mutually pleasurable.
3. Normalize affectionate Touch outside the bedroom
Most couples tend to engage in affectionate touch only when it’s time for intercourse. While this might work for some people, most people tend to require some warming up outside the bedroom.
Bonding with your partner using affectionate touch can be the key to getting them to desire deeper forms of sexual expression with you.
Hugs, kisses, foot rubs, back rubs, sitting close and caressing each other without a need for intercourse are ways to get your partner to accustomed to affectionate touch and improve your intimate life.
4. Enroll in Our Better lover course
I have put together THE BETTER LOVER COURSE for men and women to help you understand your body, awaken your sensuality and help you enjoy sexual pleasure with your spouse.
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