If you are a new or intending couple, here are some helpful tips for navigating intimacy in marriage.
1. Don’t be shy to discuss sex from now on!
Talk about it – Discuss your sexual history, expectations, desires, and boundaries with kindness and respect. This might feel awkward at first, but open communication is the foundation of a healthy sex life.
2. Ask questions and actively listen
Learn about your partner’s turn-ons, turn-offs, and what makes them feel most comfortable. Instead of assuming you know their desires; actively listen and be present in the conversation.
3. Be open-minded
Forget about gender expectations, try to understand and embrace each other’s desires, and explore what works for you as a couple.
Don’t be shy to own your pleasure, whatever that looks like. A healthy sex life is a two-way street, and feeling comfortable expressing yourself is key to reaching new heights of pleasure together.
4. Explore & Discover
Sex is learned. Explore each other, learn about your bodies and pleasure. Experiment with different forms of sex and discover what you both enjoy. Don’t be afraid to get creative and have fun!
5. Understand what enhances intimacy outside the bedroom.
Intimacy goes beyond the bedroom. While physical intimacy is important, creating a strong emotional connection is equally important. Spend quality time together, share your feelings, and build trust and intimacy that transcends the physical.
6. Don’t worry about how much sex you think couples should have
Define that for yourselves as a couple, according to what you both want. Focus on quality over quantity and prioritize creating a fulfilling and enjoyable experience for both partners
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