I’m passionate about Women enjoying Sex because I know from experience that when you enjoy Sex, your desire for it increases.
Sex, for women, should not simply be about performing for the man and getting him to ejaculate. It should also be about her pleasure… and lots of it.
Here are a few tips to help you PRIORITIZE your pleasure as a Woman.
Understand how your body receives pleasure
For most people, sexual pleasure is all about following a rule book but the truth is, each woman is unique in the way she receives sexual pleasure.
To start enjoying the sex you want, it’s important to know what you really enjoy.
Go on a full body exploration (Solo or with your spouse) to find out what touch you enjoy and what parts of your body turn you on and teach your partner how to get you going.
Have Sex for You
If you see sex as something you give to your partner without any regard to your pleasure or desires, it’s highly likely that Sex will seem more like a chore than a pleasure ride for you.
I said this earlier, if Sex is pleasurable for you, your body will want more of it.
So open up to your sexual desires, feel free to express yourself sexually, say what you want and let Sex be about your pleasure as well.
Tune into Sex by being present….it’s not a time to mentally plan your To-Do List
Your mind is your most powerful sexual organ.
If you are distracted, anxious or not present during Sex, you’ll find it difficult to receive pleasure.
One of the simplest way to stay in tune and in the moment is to BREATHE and bring back focus to the sensations your body is receiving.
Teach Him How to Touch You
Your Man is not a mind reader and honestly, most men don’t understand the fact that Sex is not a one size fits all for women.
By showing your man where, how, and when to touch you, you’re giving him the knowledge he needs to take you over the edge and help you enjoy amazing sexual pleasure.
Say what you want
A lot of women feel shy about asking for what they really want in bed.
We worry if our request will be too much.
We worry if we will still be ‘good girls’ if our desires are unbridled.
We worry if we won’t be bruising our men’s egos.
The truth is, saying what you want sexually is a sure fire way of enjoying more pleasure and also helping your man understand your desires.
Your sexual desires are valid and pleasure is your birthright!
So open that mouth and tell him, honey!
A great idea is to make it a habit of having these conversations regularly even outside sexy time. Tell him what you want and ask him about what he also wants.
So there, a few tips to help you prioritize your Sexual pleasure as a Woman.
If you feel like taking your pleasure a notch higher, check out our course, Better Lover for Women