When a lot of us hear the word ‘intimacy’, we automatically conclude that it refers to sex and sex related acts. Well, that may not entirely be wrong, however intimacy is much more than sex. Intimacy when broken down simply means ‘Into -Me -See’. It means being able to see into and understand your spouse …
While reading my bible today, I was fixated on the passage where Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me’ in Matthew19:14. Undoubtedly, we have heard this bible passage countless times but today, it had a new meaning for me. It dawned on me that Jesus was not referring to just that moment when …
One of the most underrated ways of provoking sexual arousal in your spouse is by using your words erotically. Not only is it underrated, many people find it awkward to speak erotic words … plain and simple. How do I bring myself to say things to my husband about his penis or his body or …
I like to believe that I am a realist and it would be pretty unrealistic of me to deny the fact that sex between single people is quite hip these days. Gone are the days when an unmarried lady or man would have sex in secret to avoid being labelled. These days, it is the …
When I talk to singles planning to get married, one of the first things I ask is ‘What type of marriage do you envision for yourself?’ Based on their response, we then drill down to ‘What type of spouse do you need to make the vision a reality?’. We go further and the question becomes …
How often should you have sex to qualify as a happily married couple? Twice a week, thrice a week, everyday? It’s a question quite a number of people think about: ‘What frequency of sex makes me eligible to join the ‘Happily Marrieds’ club?’ My answer. There is no “set in stone” required frequency that makes …
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I was speaking with a friend the other day and naturally sex came up, Yes, I enjoy talking about sex. In the course of our conversation, we began reeling off a list of our sexual escapades and wondering at the extent of the outlandish things we had done. It was fun. As the conversation progressed, …
Time and again, the question has been asked? What does it take to be a great lover? Trust me, this question is not gender specific at all. Men have asked me, Women have asked me and in different ways too. ‘Olawunmi, how can I rock her world?’ ‘Olawunmi, what does it mean for a woman …
Olawunmi, my husband likes sex….alot. I don’t hate it but I have a problem with the way he approaches sex. I am the kind of person who enjoys sex in totality, I enjoy when I am wooed even before I get to the bedroom, it helps me condition my mind properly for the actual sex. …
Many couples today are in marriages that are tethering on the brink of divorce as a result of strict gender stereotyping. The African society from time immemorial has provided a laid down manual for man and wife to follow. It has been made clear to us over and again, even more so while growing up. …
