A threesome?
Surely this is a sin and no one, let alone a Christian should be advocating threesomes.
Hold up, before your judge, sentence and crucify me, the threesome I speak of is that which involves You, Your Spouse and God.
Have you ever reached that point in your marriage where you feel like you made the wrong choice and you just want to cut your losses and run?
If yes, be assured that you don’t walk alone.
At those times, how do you get over that feeling? How do you get back to assuring yourself that you made the right decision?
How do you go from feeling like you can’t go on to feeling like the marriage is worth salvaging?
This is the point at which many throw in the towel.
This is the make or break point, so to speak.
This is the point where the foundation of your marriage is tested.
A weak foundation will give way at this point. A strong foundation, though tested, will stand its ground.
How do you get a strong foundation?
Well, for those who are yet to be married, it is best that a strong foundation is set before marriage.
The single most important advice I give intending couples is to hear from God. I don’t mean, you should speak for God or hear what you want to hear.
Hear directly from God and in case you are not sure, test the answer again to be sure the response came from Him.
The importance of getting God’s go ahead before marriage can never be over-emphasized. It may seem needless at the point or seem like a long process. If, however, you go without it, the consequences will be far costlier than the time you would have spent seeking His face.
Knowing you have God’s backing in your marriage is what keeps your marriage together in times of trial, times when you want to just turn and run.
At those times, you go back to God and hold Him to His Word. You tell Him, you went into the marriage with His approval and you need Him to intervene and help you straighten out the issue you are facing.
Trust me, He hears and He answers. Our Heavenly Father is a God of accountability.
In those times of trial, you will never be alone.
For those who are already married and somehow skipped God at the foundation, hope is not lost.
Fortunately, God is always available for us when we turn to him, He has granted us FULL and FREE access to Him. We, however, fail to take the advantage of that grace.
Now is the time to bring God into your marriage. Seek His face, ask His forgiveness and invite Him and the Holy Spirit into your home to take control.
Matt 7:7 says ‘Ask and you shall receive, Seek and you shall find, Knock and the door shall be opened unto you.
That verse is not a lie. Go ahead. Ask, Seek and Knock and don’t stop doing them until you get your answer.
A threesome doesn’t look so bad now, does it?
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