The year is almost at an end and the New Year is very fast approaching. This is the time when most people take stock of their achievements in the year and begin to look forward to accomplishing greater things in the New Year. Yes, you said it. It’s time for New Year Resolutions. A lot […]
A while back, I was overwhelmed with so much going on in my life. I needed to take a break, I desperately needed a clean break from one of the major things I do. I felt like I couldn’t take it anymore, how much could one individual shoulder anyway? However, the reality was clear, it
You love your spouse, and yes you are in love with your spouse…but are you friends with your spouse? A multitude of definitions have been given to the word ‘LOVE’ People have described love as a feeling, a series of actions, an over-surge of hormones and many other ways. What does LOVE truly mean to
Before taking the plunge into marriage, it is very crucial that you evaluate your relationship to be sure your intended is someone you can actually spend your entire life with. Quite a number of people spend so much time preparing for the wedding-a one day event and neglect the most important preparation of all…..PREPARATION FOR
‘I am getting married in 4 months. My fiance and I are yet to have sex as we are Christians. However, I fear that not having sex before marriage may lead to issues of sexual incompatibility in marriage. Is it wise for us to abstain and risk jeopardizing our sexual relations in marriage?’ Many single
This is where many people go wrong. Unfortunately, getting things wrong here may very well mean sentencing yourself to a life of unhappiness. The fairy-tale we all want is to meet Mr/Mrs Right and live happily ever after. Afterall, that was how it happened for Snow White, Rapunzel, Aurora…. you name them. However, the operative
In my last post, I spoke about taking sex out of the bedroom. Today, we take it out of the house. The essence of going outside the house to have sex is to reintroduce excitement into your sex life. You get a different sort of excitement having sex outside conventional places which lends a more
TAKING SEX OUT OF THE BEDROOM In marriage, you tend to have most of your activities planned, scheduled or carried out in a conventional way. Usually, sex falls into the category of the activities you tend to carry out conventionally. I am not trying to tell you that being conventional is bad, however being conventional
All married couples at one point or the other in marriage will have issues to deal with. In my experience as a Marriage and Sex counselor, I have come to discover that the one thing that makes the difference between couples that overcome and those that are overcome is THE WILLINGNESS TO TRY. Many marriages
A threesome? Surely this is a sin and no one, let alone a Christian should be advocating threesomes. Hold up, before your judge, sentence and crucify me, the threesome I speak of is that which involves You, Your Spouse and God. Have you ever reached that point in your marriage where you feel like you
