‘I am getting married in 4 months. My fiance and I are yet to have sex as we are Christians. However, I fear that not having sex before marriage may lead to issues of sexual incompatibility in marriage. Is it wise for us to abstain and risk jeopardizing our sexual relations in marriage?’ Many single …
This is where many people go wrong. Unfortunately, getting things wrong here may very well mean sentencing yourself to a life of unhappiness. The fairy-tale we all want is to meet Mr/Mrs Right and live happily ever after. Afterall, that was how it happened for Snow White, Rapunzel, Aurora…. you name them. However, the operative …
In my last post, I spoke about taking sex out of the bedroom. Today, we take it out of the house. The essence of going outside the house to have sex is to reintroduce excitement into your sex life. You get a different sort of excitement having sex outside conventional places which lends a more …
TAKING SEX OUT OF THE BEDROOM In marriage, you tend to have most of your activities planned, scheduled or carried out in a conventional way. Usually, sex falls into the category of the activities you tend to carry out conventionally. I am not trying to tell you that being conventional is bad, however being conventional …
All married couples at one point or the other in marriage will have issues to deal with. In my experience as a Marriage and Sex counselor, I have come to discover that the one thing that makes the difference between couples that overcome and those that are overcome is THE WILLINGNESS TO TRY. Many marriages …
A threesome? Surely this is a sin and no one, let alone a Christian should be advocating threesomes. Hold up, before your judge, sentence and crucify me, the threesome I speak of is that which involves You, Your Spouse and God. Have you ever reached that point in your marriage where you feel like you …
I like to call this an open secret. It’s an open secret that many of us are blinded to and unfortunately, never get to consider. I also was blinded to it for quite a while, until one day I was speaking to my husband about how much I love our daughter. I was telling him …
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In my last post on oral sex, I had you practice lip confidence and getting used to some of the oral sex techniques. This time let’s get to the real thing. Prep yourself. Get sexy. Do your lip confidence practice and feel confident in yourself. Your husband wants to know that you are genuinely interested …
How important is sex in a Christian marriage? Without much thought, I am sure your answer would be ‘very important’. Right? Unfortunately the current reality is quite different from the ideal. Too many times I have heard Christian men complain that their wives do not meet their sexual needs because they tend to bring the …
Getting married has been your fantasy since you were 6. The fantasy has become reality. You went from girlfriend to wife and now your place is in the house with a cloth tied across your chest, right? Wrong! Okay, so maybe the image I painted is a bit extreme. Maybe you go to work rather …
