The term “friends with benefits” calls to mind two adults having consensual sex with no expectations or romantic strings attached. Today, I am redefining it. Indulge me. Let’s start by dissecting the individual words. A friend is someone with whom…
So you are single and ready to mingle. You have ticked all or maybe most of the boxes you wanted to tick before getting married. You have your college degree, a nice job, a fancy car, a nice apartment and…
I watched the famous War Room movie today and I am so glad I did. There are so many lessons to be learned from the movie that I am certain I will watch it a second time and maybe even…
When Phillip married Kate, he had very high hopes for their marriage. She would play her part as a woman and handle all domestic chores while he would focus on providing financially for the family. Piece of cake. Who said…
Looking at that title alone could make you want to wave the white flag before reading the full post. Hold on, wait a minute, I know the concept of a man leaving his action/horror/suspense movies for a romance flick doesn’t…
A while back, I was overwhelmed with so much going on in my life. I needed to take a break, I desperately needed a clean break from one of the major things I do. I felt like I couldn’t take…
You love your spouse, and yes you are in love with your spouse…but are you friends with your spouse? A multitude of definitions have been given to the word ‘LOVE’ People have described love as a feeling, a series of…
Before taking the plunge into marriage, it is very crucial that you evaluate your relationship to be sure your intended is someone you can actually spend your entire life with. Quite a number of people spend so much time preparing…
This is where many people go wrong. Unfortunately, getting things wrong here may very well mean sentencing yourself to a life of unhappiness. The fairy-tale we all want is to meet Mr/Mrs Right and live happily ever after. Afterall, that…
All married couples at one point or the other in marriage will have issues to deal with. In my experience as a Marriage and Sex counselor, I have come to discover that the one thing that makes the difference between…
